What do you do when you have a huge secret within your groupof friends? Like, majorly huge, or at least it is major compared to past...issues. For example:
What do you do when someone in your group of oldest friends has a crush on another? Let's make it more complicated. This other friend? In a relationship.
With someone that 40% of the group is very, very unhappy with for cheated on aforementioned object of affection?
As you may be able to tell, this is really a problem. And I problem I have never before encountered. So most of this, besides having a deeper meaning that I will probably forget about, will be me venting.
There is this girl, and for the sake of anomality let's call her Brenda. Brenda, you see, is dating this boy, who we shall refer to as Dylan. You see, Dylan is crazy about Brenda for some unknown reason. Actually, it is known. Even though Brenda is the most un-innocent person that I know, she has this way of fooling you to feel bad for her. It's annoying. Especially since Brenda has cheated on Dylan multiple times. Dylan is aware of this. Dylan will not break up with her. Why? He thinks he loves her.
You see, in the months leading up to his relationship with Brenda, Dylan had issues with depression, and after he started dating Brenda I guess they all went away? And now he's afraid that if he breaks up with her, he will be depressed again. Well, here's the problem: Dylan could do so much better than Brenda. The bigger problem? Kelly likes Dylan. Kelly, in fact, may be in love with Dylan. But Dylan looks at Kelly like a sister. And he brings it up every time we say something at the same time or have something in common, always saying "See, Kelly, we're pretty much siblings, because that just happened to us."
Did I say we?
So it's a huge problem.
I know that no one probably reads this, but anyone have any advice? It would be appreciated.